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Meeting and matching

First meetings, what to ask, and how to tell interest from politeness.

How many times should we meet before deciding?

Both families want an answer and we have met twice. I do not feel like I know him well enough to decide something this big, but I also cannot keep saying let us meet again without

TrueSoulMatch Editorial

Editorial
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2026-08-07

I felt nothing at the first meeting. Is that a reason to say no?

She was pleasant, we talked easily, nothing was wrong. I just did not feel anything. Everyone tells me that comes later in an arranged marriage. Is that true or am I talking myself

TrueSoulMatch Editorial

Editorial
1 answer
2026-08-07

What should I actually ask at a first meeting?

I have a first meeting next week and the last two were painfully awkward. We covered job, family, hobbies in ten minutes and then just sat there. What do people actually ask that t

TrueSoulMatch Editorial

Editorial
1 answer
2026-08-07