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Meeting and matching

First meetings, what to ask, and how to tell interest from politeness.

How to tell if she actually likes me or is just being polite to her parents?

We have met twice at a hotel lounge for tea. Both times she smiled and answered every question I asked about her job and weekends. She never asked me anything back except once if I

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How to tell if she is actually interested or just being polite?

We have met twice now at the same coffee shop near her office. Both times she smiled, listened to everything I said about my job, and paid her half of the bill. But she never asks

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We've met twice, families are pushing, but he just nods. How do I know if he's actually interested?

We met for the second time last weekend. My parents are already asking for a 'yes' or 'no' by Sunday. He just smiles and nods when I talk, even when I asked about his job. I don't

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After two meetings, how do I tell if her politeness means interest or just good manners when families are pushing?

We met for the second time last Saturday. We talked for maybe 45 minutes, mostly about general things. She was polite and smiled a lot but didn't ask many questions back. My parent

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How many times should we meet before deciding?

Both families want an answer and we have met twice. I do not feel like I know him well enough to decide something this big, but I also cannot keep saying let us meet again without

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I felt nothing at the first meeting. Is that a reason to say no?

She was pleasant, we talked easily, nothing was wrong. I just did not feel anything. Everyone tells me that comes later in an arranged marriage. Is that true or am I talking myself

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What should I actually ask at a first meeting?

I have a first meeting next week and the last two were painfully awkward. We covered job, family, hobbies in ten minutes and then just sat there. What do people actually ask that t

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