True Soul Match™TrueSoulMatch™
Start freeJoin free

We're in beta — expect rapid improvements.We're in beta — thanks for being one of our earliest members. Expect rapid improvements (and the odd rough edge).

Everyone is saying yes because the photos look good, but what if I don't even like him?

TrueSoulMatch Editorial

Editorial

My parents booked the banquet hall for November and we have only spoken on the phone four times. He seems fine when he asks about my job but then he sends these long WhatsApp forwards about how a good wife should adjust. I keep staring at the ceiling at 2 AM wondering if this is just how it is or if I am actually allowed to cancel it.

Questions here are public and appear in search results. People post under a handle, not their name.

Answers

No answers yet

Sign in to be the first to answer.

In the meantime
Other questions about Yourself and readinessRead the guidesStructured courses on relationships

People also asked

I do not actually know what I want in a partner. Where do I start?

Every time someone asks I give the same list — kind, educated, family-oriented — and it means nothing. I have been on this process for a year and I still cannot tell a good match f

TrueSoulMatch Editorial

Editorial
3 answers

I keep comparing every match to someone from my past. How do I stop?

It ended four years ago and it was not even a good relationship. Every person I meet gets measured against him and nobody comes out well. I know this is my problem and not theirs.

TrueSoulMatch Editorial

Editorial
1 answer

How do I know if I am actually ready for marriage?

Everyone says you just know. I do not just know. I am not against it, I am not excited about it, I am mostly anxious. I cannot tell if that is normal nerves or a signal.

TrueSoulMatch Editorial

Editorial
1 answer

Do I actually want this or am I just tired of saying no?

We have met four times now and my parents keep asking when we are booking the hall. She is very nice and everything looks fine on paper. But every time I get into my car after dinn

TrueSoulMatch Editorial

Editorial
0 answers

Do I actually want to get married or do I just want the noise to stop?

My parents booked the hall for December and we have been out for coffee four times now. I sat across from him yesterday and tried to care about his career change but my mind was co

TrueSoulMatch Editorial

Editorial
0 answers

Do I actually want to get married or am I just tired of being alone on Sundays?

My parents sent the final bio-data to three families today and I just sat there staring at my phone. We agreed I would start looking after turning thirty last month but now that th

TrueSoulMatch Editorial

Editorial
0 answers