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Do I actually want to get married or do I just want the noise to stop?

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My parents booked the hall for December and we have been out for coffee four times now. I sat across from him yesterday and tried to care about his career change but my mind was completely blank. Everyone keeps saying the feeling grows after the wedding happens. I have no idea if that is true or if I am just running out of time.

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