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He spends six thousand on shoes and fights on cab fares. Can this work?

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We have met four times through our parents. He paid for dinner twice and then asked me to split the auto fare on the way back. His salary is three times mine but he keeps a strict ledger of who spent what. I do not know how we will run a house together.

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